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    First Father’s Day

    My father’s day started off early when my mom accidentally informed me in a group text that my gift had arrived on Friday, which made my day for the rest of the day. That evening i got to open my present to find my very own GoPro Camera. Of course i spent the next few hours on amazon looking at all the different things i could buy for it.

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    Sunday morning we went to go see the fish at the California Science Center since its cheaper than the Aquarium of the Pacific. The difference between paying $20-30 per adult vs. any donation amount is a no brainer.

    Now that she can lean onto things it makes these trips funner to go. We can let her out of her seat and let her kind of explore on her own accord. She was more interested in the host on the mic and the kids around her than the big fish in the tank.

    The rest of day was business as usual with my Huntington Beach Basketball League, and KFC for dinner with my dad.

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    Day with Dad

    Saturday Joy had a mom’s day out with her friends at the spa which meant that Alice was going to all alone with me. That was the plan at least up until I i broke the kitchen sink the night before. That meant i had to call my parents to come help me out. My dad worked with me to getting the sink back in working order while my mom kept Alice entertained. While trying to clear a clog in the sink i snapped a plastic pipe which was running into the main line. So i had to run to the store buy some new piping and figure out how best to fix the problem. It took a little banging and prying but eventually replaced the pipes and got the sink back in working order.

    treasure-potAfterwards we went to lunch at Treasure Pot in Downey for some Thai food, which of course meant my parents knew some people there. The rest of the day was spent at my parents’ house just hanging out, watching TV and taking a nap.

    bjs Once Joy got done with her spa day, we went out to BJs for some pizza. Alice’s poop schedule is way different than it was a week ago when it ran like clockwork, and she had a massive evacuation of the system while waiting for our table and crapped all over her shirt which meant she spent all dinner in just her sweater. Poor thing.

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    One Week Later

    Its already been one week since we brought Alice home and she’s already changing faster than expected. When we first brought her home it was almost clockwork as we would feed her, change her diaper, then put her to sleep for a couple hours. I had a good rocking/shushing to get her to fall asleep all by myself.

    Now she’s taken to the boob quite well and now can’t fall asleep unless she’s pacified by it. I’ve tried using our elephant pacifier to pacifier when we know she’s already eaten and is just looking for comfort but its not totally working. She’s not really enjoying hanging out with me for long periods of time, and we’re still trying to figure out whats changed that we need to adjust our routine to help her fall asleep easier again.

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    As for work its been a good time to get some time off from working full time (i’m still working at home, and popping into work when my mom visits). Thankfully the projects i’m working on are pretty easy and i can manage it all from my laptop at home.  Next week Jonathan is heading to Switzerland with one of our developers to work on a project, and I’ll have to probably pop into the office a little more often to make sure everything doesn’t fall apart.

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    Dude, you’re a dad.

    “Dude, you’re a dad” were the words that my sister responded to me after i told her that Joy had finally given birth. Those words were pretty much sums up me becoming an actual father. The past 9 months really haven’t affected me too much, with my day to day being pretty much the same, just with a lot less drinking and a lot more prepping i really didn’t have anything else to do.

    Then it starts. Wednesday night we went out for Jonathan 36th birthday at Pitfire Pizza and of course I enjoy a glass of beer to go along with our pizza but passed on the second glass just in case.

    Fast Forward to October 31st, 4am.

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    Joy wakes me up saying that she needs help timing her contractions, and that she’s been up since 1am with pregnancy pains. I immediately get a shock of adrenaline and help time it using an iPhone app. I know that once its 5 minutes in between for 1 minute long consistently for an hour its time to go. The problem was that by the time i started timing them it was somewhere around 45 seconds long and 3 minutes apart. I really didn’t want to wait for the entire hour so i decided just to leave for the hospital since its a good 35 mile drive. We called the hospital in the car and since we were on our way they just had us come in even though they probably wanted to stay home a little longer.

    5:30am.

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    We get to the hospital and head up the delivery room where we get checked into the triage room to see where we were at. Joy actually had only dilated to 2cm, but was running a slight fever so they just had us wait for a room to open up instead of sending us back home.

    7:15am

    A room finally opens up and we get to our delivery room where we’d spend the rest of the day at. As we get settled in and hooked up to all the monitors at 15 minutes later Joy’s water breaks.

    8:30am

    When we checked into the hospital initially Joy told the admitting nurse that she was going to get an epidural and i guess she thought that meant she wanted it right away. We’re werent quite ready when the anesthesiologist showed up but we didn’t want to turn the away since we didn’t know when she would be available again, so just went with it since they were going to start Joy on pitocin as well.

    11:15am

    The midwife came by to check in on Joy and said that she was 5cm dilated. My sister said that she gave birth 7 hours from that point.

    12:00pm

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    The epidural wasn’t quite working correctly so we had the anesthesiologist come back in and she adjusted Joy’s position so that the drugs would get to all of the right places. At that point it was best that Joy just get some rest and let her body take care of everything on its own. I took a nap myself as i didn’t know how many more hours it would be.

    2:00pm

    I saw joy was moving around a bit and asked her what she was feeling. She said that she was farting and i knew that was a good sign. I went out to tell our nurse Terri and she was excited because she’d been waiting for that sign all afternoon. She came in and checked where the baby was, and what do you know she was already in the birth canal. I quickly texted my mom while she left the room.

    2:10pm

    The nurse went and got the midwife so they could start the actual delivery. From that point it was game on. They put Joy in the birthing position and had her start pushing with each contraction. After the 2nd contraction the rest of the amniotic fluids came gushing out. There were no barriers preventing me from looking but i kept my eyes mainly on the other side. I took one glance over but didn’t understand what i was seeing and thought best not to look over gain.

    2:21pm

    delivery-310 minutes into it and by the 5 contraction baby Alice joined the world. She was all purple in color, conehead, and covered in fluid but i’ve never seen anything more amazing in my life.

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    After getting all her vitals documented and cleaned up a bit the nurses gave a chance to spend our first minutes as a family together.

    Alice clocked in at 20.5 inches long, and 7lbs 4 ounces. She’s definitely got my sleeping habits and poops to match.

    Dude, i’m a dad. No scarier words have been spoken before.